Who say the weatherman is always right?

The Straits Times reported on on 19 February 2010:

AN UNUSUALLY high number of bush fires has been raging for the second year in a row, as Singapore heads towards what could be the driest February on record…

Rainfall up to Tuesday was just 4.6mm, compared with 11.5mm in the same period last year. Average monthly rainfall for February is usually about 100mm.

According to the National Environment Agency (NEA), it will continue to be dry for at least the next two weeks, with only shortlived showers expected on three or four afternoons.

The weatherman reported yesterday that it was going to be hot today and even hotter tomorrow. Last night, it rained despite what the weatherman said.

The past months have been challenging months. I thought today was going to be another stretching day. But it turned out to be a good day despite everything else.

The rain brought refreshment and coolness.

I finally made a tough decision this morning. And like the rain, it brought refreshment to my soul.

Who says the weatherman is always right? Things can seem tough, but God can and does surprise us with the unexpected rain.

A perfect heart

For the past week, I have been taking Aunty Say Bay for four medical check ups. During her last four visits here, she has had two cataract operations and her gall stones removed. Because of the surgeries, she had to have her heart and overall health checked. Last November when I phoned her, she told me about pains in her gall area and fever. She recovered from that but I thought it would be wise while in town to see the doctors to review how she is doing.

Every one of the doctors gave her a clean bill of health. The heart doctor said she has “a perfect heart.” He joked that in a few years, he himself would probably have to have his heart treated but she would be out running around. He stood from his seat, shook her hands and congratulated her. His smile stretched from ear-to-ear and said, “today, you win everything.” I am sure she must be one of the rare patients in his clinic he can say that to.

Every time I talk to Aunty, she would say, “I asked the Lord for many more years to live because the work is not yet finished.” God has answered her prayers!

Aunty doesn’t just have a perfect physical heart, she has a good heart all round - a childlike love for God and a sincere love for people. It’s been a joy to be with her and to have her stay at my home this past week. I will miss her when she goes back to her country on Monday 8 March.

Between a prayer and a joke

Sometime in the early 90s, my friend Bernard Lee said to me, “Lilian and I prayed that our lives would touch a million lives.”

I didn’t know how to react at the audacity of his prayer. I jokingly told God, “I would like to touch a million lives too!” I never made it a “prayer.” Me? Touch a million lives? Impossible!

A part of me wanted to ask God for something so big and so beyond me that if ever it happened, I would know it wasn’t something I did, but something he did.

Digital Storytelling is something I stumbled upon and fell in love with in August 2007. In the last three years I have seen so many wonderful and amazing things happen. I saw peoples’ eyes light up when something suddenly makes sense to them, or when lives and relationships are healed, or when people start to have hope. Or just the simple pleasure of seeing someone learn a new thing.

One day, I was sharing with someone all the ways I am seeing how teaching people to tell their personal stories and expressing themselves through the digital media was making a difference in lives. He exclaimed,

“Boy! You can touch a million lives with this!”

Two of my stories have been telecast on one of Singapore’s TV channels - OKTO. And of course I broadcast others on YouTube and on our website. I still get smses and emails telling me that they had just seen my Daddy’s story on TV and how it had touched or inspired them.

I told Bernard how God took my joke about touching a million lives seriously. Bernard smiled and said, “Actually, we increased it and asked God to let us touch two million. WOW!

Who would buy my flawed gadget?

I bought an expensive S$900 gadget last August. I hadn’t even used it 10 times when I realised that there was a technical flaw to it — a perfectly functioning gadget but with a flaw.

I decided to sell but

  • I didn’t want to lose a lot of money on it
  • I didn’t want to lie about its flaw (I know some people wouldn’t mind using it anyway with this flaw)
  • I knew that only people with a special interest in the gadget would buy it — which narrowed down the buyers to very few
  • I didn’t have the time to look for a buyer

I left the gadget in a corner but it nagged at me every time I walked by that corner. I felt really bad that I couldn’t use it. I tried to think of ways to sell it. I put it up in eBay and another internet buy/sell site. I waited and waited but no buyer enquired.

I thought I’d make an ad and stick it all over the bus stops and at the bus interchange. I thought of even setting up a little display with a big sign board at the busy bus stop!

I thought I’d ship it to the Philippines or to bring it across to Malaysia to see if someone would be interested. I thought even of donating it. But I was told I’d have to pay heavy taxes for shipping it.

About a month ago, I got a call asking about my gadget. I was upfront and told the enquirer about the flaw. He immediately said he’d think about it and hung up the phone. No one called for a long time and I was getting increasingly desperate to get it out from my sight. I wanted to use it, but I just didn’t feel free to use it. Someone scolded for being honest and telling the potential buyer about the flaw.

I asked God many times to help me find a buyer. A few mornings ago I pleaded with God to please help me sell it. It was just IMPOSSIBLE as far as I was concerned with the kind of conditions I had placed on selling it. That same morning, I spoke to someone who knew about the market for my gadget.

He said, “At most you will get $300.”

“$300! What?! I’ve hardly used it.”

He told me that the people who knew about these gadgets know my predicament and they would take advantage and push the price down really low. My heart sank.

That same day however, I got a call. The man said that he had a gadget which he had sold when he needed the money. He said he regretted selling it. We made an appointment to meet the next evening.

He was as desperate to buy it as I was to sell it!

He said he paid about $1000 for his and had sold it or $450. He said my gadget was just like his, but better. It was the same colour as his, and lighter too. I asked him if he wanted to try it and he said, no, he knows how it works. He just stared at it a long time. He really wanted it — and I mean wanted it.

I told him many times about the flaw but he said it didn’t matter to him because it would serve his needs very well. He asked me how much I would sell it for and I told him that I had advertised it for $800. I asked him to make me an offer. The nice man told me he didn’t want me to lose a lot of money.

In the end, he said “how about $600?” And I said, “why don’t we meet in the middle — you increase it a hundred and I would lower it a hundred.” He immediately gave me a deposit and arranged to pick it up the next evening.

As we were parting ways, I turned around and saw him staring at my gadget. He couldn’t take his eyes off it. He came back to me and asked if he could take a photo of it.

I have been going through a challenging season in my life. And the gadget was just another thing on my plate that was eating me. God really worked a miracle for me.

“Angel, if I can take care of your gadget, I can take care of everything else that you are going through.”

WOW.

Priceless

Today Au and I had coffee with a new friend. I saw her face light up as we painted pictures of what could be. I said that she had to see things with her imagination, with her mind’s eyes because it doesn’t yet exist. I saw her face light up and my heart celebrated.